How to Wear a Ghotra

Although the header of this blog shows my picture in a thobe and ghotra, those who know me know that I don’t wear them very often. And whenever I wear the ghotra, which is usually in a wedding or similar occasions, I face the dilemma of how to wear it. Unlike the necktie, where you are limited to a few choices when it comes to how to tie one and there are guidelines and tutorials on how to do it, there are so many different ways to wear the ghotra and there is no such thing as The Ultimate Ghotra Wearing Guide. However, last week I received an email that showed two dozens styles of ghotra wearing, and I thought I would share some of them here…

Modesty
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Very simple. Just throw one end of the ghotra on the opposite shoulder and you are good to go.

Eagle

Similar to Modesty, only this time you take the other end of the ghotra and left it on the aforementioned shoulder.

Mr. X

Throw both ends of the ghotra onto the opposite shoulder. Suitable for desert trips and cold weather.

VIP

This one is usually sported by ministers and big officials, as well as in weddings and receptions. You just let your ghotra down, probably with some little folds on both sides of the mirzam, which is the area of the ghotra in the middle of the forehead.

Teachers

Again, you let the ghotra down only this time it goes behind your back. It is very simple and makes for easy quick movement, which is why it is perfect for teachers.

Schoolboys

Modern with a traditional touch, this style is popular among students. You bring one end of the ghotra from behind and put it in front of the opposite shoulder, while the other end remains in the back.

Abu Rashed

Named after Khaled Abu Rashed, lawyer of the infamous drifter Abu Kab, who allegedly mastered this style. You through one end of the ghotra above your head while leaving the other end as it is.

Balance

As you can see, this one looks like a scale from the front. You through both ends above the head with a slight angle while leaving space to form what resembles scalepans.

Cobra

This one got very popular in the 90’s, and it gets its name from the highly venomous snake. You need a large amount of starch to preserve that look, and you need to be careful when you move your head because quick moves might destroy it.

Butterfly

Unlike the Cobra which limits the motion range of the neck, probably causing a long lasting pain in the area, this one allows for freer movement. Easy and flexible, it makes for a full view of the face and it has a touch of elegance to it.

Bint al-Bakkar

The name has a historical background that I don’t fully understand, but this style has become one of my favourites lately. Not easy to master, but when done right it is quite steady and looks very nice.

Bonus
Here’s a picture of me and my brother Hassan during a recent engagement party in Hofuf, both sporting Bint al-Bakkar:

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74 Comments

  1. Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 10:38 | Permalink | Reply

    I love all the different styles you showed here – I didn’t realize they each had their own fitting name to go with them. I used to have really long hair and it would get caught in knobs or in my armpits or get in the way while driving – do men have the same problems with the ghotras?

    • Posted Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 18:49 | Permalink | Reply

      I just want to say for the record, I think this style of clothing is very sexy. I am not trying to be crass or inappropriate, but men who are styled in this way in the Gulf look great; particularly those who are in shape. My favorite style is the powerful Cobra look. Secondly, the butterfly is also a hot look. My third favorite style is Bint al-Bakkar; very sophisticated. There is sensuality in modesty, something many Americans or Westerners miss when observing the fashion by Arabs. How the man walks and glides on a hot or cooler sunny day speaks volumes about his style.

      • Posted Wednesday, May 18, 2011 at 0:32 | Permalink

        Its like you read my mind! You appear to know so much about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you could do with some pics to drive the message home a little bit, but other than that, this is great blog. A great read. I will certainly be back.

  2. Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 11:02 | Permalink | Reply

    I hate the Cobra. It was all the rage when I was growing up and everyone was supposed to do it. Never could master it, so I simply gave up on wearing the ghutra for the longest time. These days I usually go with “The Teacher” for working hour dress and “The Butterfly” for fancy occasions :)

  3. Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 11:14 | Permalink | Reply

    hahahahaa
    I just loved this post.
    I liked the student one the most.

  4. Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 14:05 | Permalink | Reply

    lol…I like modesty and butterfly.

    I’ve worn them before (didn’t know they were called ghotra) but found them fiddly. Always having to adjust it.

  5. Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 15:53 | Permalink | Reply

    Ooooh I did not know it could be worn in so many ways. I like them all, schoolboy and Vip the most!

  6. Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 16:04 | Permalink | Reply

    Enjoyed this post. The cobra looks scary! ;)

    Nice to see a pic of you and your brother showing off one of the ghotra styles.

  7. ties
    Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 16:49 | Permalink | Reply

    There are more than four ways to tie a tie.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_85_Ways_to_Tie_a_Tie

  8. Andrew
    Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 17:27 | Permalink | Reply

    Given your focus on your sartorial splendour, and also the name of your blog, I hope that you will soon equally focus on your thoughts regarding jeans.

    Unquestionably “The Teacher” is the most comfortable.

  9. Chiara
    Posted Monday, September 7, 2009 at 20:38 | Permalink | Reply

    Great post! It really is like women with long hair (mine was to my waist before I cut it to a 1″ short style–people didn’t recognize me!). I like the Schoolboys, Teachers, and Eagle.

    The VIP, the Cobra, and the Abu Rashed not so much.

    Way to model the Bint al-Bakkar!

  10. Jerry M
    Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 3:47 | Permalink | Reply

    “The Ultimate Ghotra Wearing Guide”

    That should be the title of your book about life among the young in Saudi Arabia.

  11. Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 4:48 | Permalink | Reply

    Excellent post Ahmed….and I hope that we will shortly see one for women with the “The Ultimate Hijjab Wearing Guide.” I have also seen hijjabs worn in differing styles all over the Kingdom and among the Saudi women too.

    • Donatella
      Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 14:49 | Permalink | Reply

      Yes,I want The Ultimate Hijab Guide too!!! It’s very interesting for me in fashion ^_^!

  12. Omer
    Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 5:19 | Permalink | Reply

    very nice post…..i used to think that these styles are specific for a perticular region or tribe…btw i liked the student and the butterfly..

  13. muneebsaeed
    Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 7:16 | Permalink | Reply

    Oh.. such a nice explanation!
    Love Mr X and the Eagle

  14. Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 7:49 | Permalink | Reply

    thank you so much for this, i’d wanted to do this post for quite some time, but always thought a man could do it so much better. great post, great blog.

  15. Xavier
    Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 9:19 | Permalink | Reply

    Great blog ahmed ..
    I think you have forgotten on of my favorite styles ..
    Talal’s Style …

  16. Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 11:32 | Permalink | Reply

    A very intuitive post. Never knew there were so much styles to go for.

    I’m enjoying your writings, keep it up. I’ve lived in Riyadh on & off for about 3 years, so I can pretty much relate to some points you are talking about.

  17. Хех
    Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 18:28 | Permalink | Reply

    ахахах, особенно свадьбы с 10лет

  18. Tiger
    Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 18:32 | Permalink | Reply

    Nice,
    I just discovered that my brother is a Cobra (and still living in the 90′s) – nice job – I am sending this compilation to my friends.

  19. Posted Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 20:23 | Permalink | Reply

    hehe great post .. really !!
    my styles are usually the butterfly and abu rashed .. its what suites me best ..

  20. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 0:17 | Permalink | Reply

    I love the butterfly and Bint AlBakkar
    <3

  21. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 4:23 | Permalink | Reply

    Since I do not wear them very much, my only style is VIP, since I cannot do anything with them.

    It is interesting to know, that where I am from, my grandfathers generation did not wear a ghutra, but from my father’s generation, it was mandatory.

    One of the Sheiks of the UAE, the car racing Maktoom, said that a thoub (or in his case a “Dishdasha”) only was like jeans and a t-shirt, but put the ghutra (not sure if they call it something else) and it is like wearing a suit.

    Good one, would’ve been interesting to put the cartoon from a few years ago also which illustrated all the styles also.

    Cheers

  22. vladimir poopen
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 8:54 | Permalink | Reply

    THROW THROW

  23. Graham
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 9:09 | Permalink | Reply

    You guys look totally pimped out! Nice….

  24. Linguist
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 9:21 | Permalink | Reply

    I do agree with Xavier you forgot the very classic style: Talal’s style. How come! it is the best man… but yeah Aod in this excerpt is amazing ;)

  25. Al-halal'ul haram
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 9:40 | Permalink | Reply

    Or you could just not wear it at all in the hope that you can pass off as any other nationality but that of a misogynistic, backward, barbaric, filthy cesspool of a country that is Saudi Arabia.

    Allah’u'Akbar!

    ps now do as the Saudi government and censor this comment. Oh and don’t forget to beat your women today.

    • The FireBrand
      Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 19:11 | Permalink | Reply

      Dear troll…haven’t you better things to do?…

  26. Linguist
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 9:43 | Permalink | Reply

    You are pathetic

  27. Philip_Netherlands
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 9:54 | Permalink | Reply

    It’s things like this on the internet that make the whole world feel like one small village.

  28. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 10:11 | Permalink | Reply

    Fuck you and the camel you rode in on.

  29. Abs Yasin
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 10:44 | Permalink | Reply

    OMG…the student… now i miss how i do that in school T__T thanks Ahmed for sharing it to us. Now you showed us this, i’ll prolly wear a thobe this winter insha allah.

  30. Ruggy
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 10:52 | Permalink | Reply

    Thanks for posting this. I was unaware of the degree of individual expression which was possible and even fashionable with this style of clothing.

    Most of us really don’t know anything about Saudi culture here in the States, so this little bit of information you’ve given us here contributes substantially, and it seems very positive.

    Best regards!

  31. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 11:16 | Permalink | Reply

    You’ve gone viral :)

    Saw this post on frontpage of Digg :)

  32. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 11:17 | Permalink | Reply

    Dugg – and all for a ghutra!

    Feel pleased at Digg, I would. And it’s an interesting, fun post, BTW!

  33. jupiterus
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 11:45 | Permalink | Reply

    I lived in the middle east for 2 years and never realized until the 2nd year that there were different styles.

  34. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 11:47 | Permalink | Reply

    Hooray for racism, and all the idiots that are posting messages based upon their ignorant generalizations that really have nothing to do with the article at all.

    If you don’t like seeing world culture or clothing, I suggest you stick to your tightly knit shell and only peep out every now and then to see if the world has left you in its dust.

  35. alliebabaoopcat
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 13:12 | Permalink | Reply

    Personally, I think these are awesome. I have told my wife and daughter that some day we will move to Saudi Arabia, where they will learn to respect men and my new wives as well.

  36. John M
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 15:30 | Permalink | Reply

    Is that a photochop? The guy on the left in that photo has a REALLY big head !

  37. coffee and cigarettes
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 15:53 | Permalink | Reply

    wow thanks for that i never knew you could wear it in such different ways..i’ve seen different styles, i just never realised they were actually different styles lol if u know what i mean. good post

  38. coffee and cigarettes
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 15:55 | Permalink | Reply

    and i think i like mr x the best, its got the most mystery

  39. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 15:56 | Permalink | Reply

    Ahmed, After reading (ok studying) this post, I have spent the last few days really paying attention to all the ways guys flip, flop, roll, tuck and wear their ghuptras and it has been such fun! I knew there were different ways, but never bothered to really make sense of them – thanks to you I have!

    My hubby has agreed to be my model this weekend to see how many ways we can come up with! Yeah – bored expat during Ramadan!

    Take care
    SGIME

  40. JOhn Davis
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 16:09 | Permalink | Reply

    Wow, I never would have guessed!

    RT
    http://www.anon-tools.vze.com

  41. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 16:15 | Permalink | Reply

    I never would have thought about this…

  42. Njolf
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 16:27 | Permalink | Reply

    Dude, you head is like ENORMOUS!!! It greatly exceeds the common size, extent, huge, immense, I’ve never seen a bigger head!!

    • Darryl
      Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 19:50 | Permalink | Reply

      I am glad you noticed this too. I thought it was just me or I thought it was some kind of photoshop of a head on a body.
      You should make a Saudi Bobble Head you would make millions.

  43. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 17:08 | Permalink | Reply

    A ghutra worn well can make most any man look attractive ;-)

    Nice post

  44. Pete
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 18:56 | Permalink | Reply

    really interesting article, after spending a year over in that part of the world I did not realize that much thought went into those, where I was I think they were referred to as shemagh. After spending the time in the heat and climate I obtained a deep respect for these simple but effective styles of garments worn by your culture.

    Have a safe and happy Ramadan and enjoy the Eid.

  45. Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 20:53 | Permalink | Reply

    interesting article I was not aware that there were so many options.

  46. bkwrd byatch
    Posted Wednesday, September 9, 2009 at 23:43 | Permalink | Reply

    Why is your thobe so thight? that’s gay dude!

  47. Posted Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 1:27 | Permalink | Reply

    u should create some new ones of your own :)

  48. Sweety
    Posted Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 3:05 | Permalink | Reply

    Both of you are very cute, like two fags!

    Bye!

  49. Posted Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 8:08 | Permalink | Reply

    so what is the penifit of that ??

  50. Posted Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 14:19 | Permalink | Reply

    Selamun alejkum from Bosnia.
    Ramadan Mubarek Olsun:-))

  51. Posted Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 16:15 | Permalink | Reply

    Ahmed: Now you have to do a post on the finer points (no pun) of the mirzam! I’ve spent many an amused hour watching Saudis perfect the creases and bends of them.

    There may be as many different styles as of the ghutra itself.

  52. Posted Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 17:35 | Permalink | Reply

    Love the butterfly!! :)

  53. amerinriyadh
    Posted Friday, September 11, 2009 at 11:56 | Permalink | Reply

    Very informative! Thank you. Enjoy your posts.

  54. Sparky
    Posted Friday, September 11, 2009 at 16:48 | Permalink | Reply

    I find the Mr. X one supersexy followed by the modesty one.

    Maybe I just want to see guys wrapped up

    LOL

  55. November
    Posted Monday, September 14, 2009 at 0:29 | Permalink | Reply

    I think the “Butterfly” is “Akshakh” one lol

  56. sami
    Posted Monday, September 14, 2009 at 17:01 | Permalink | Reply

    salam, i like so much the ghotra, can you explain me how to well iron the ghotra or shemagh ?

  57. smarciepants
    Posted Saturday, September 19, 2009 at 19:12 | Permalink | Reply

    You know I love reading your blog, and all of the comments (even the shitty ones) cuz its all good, people are people sahh? I love that this stuff is getting discussed somewhere! Keep it up, man, I think its helping people to get by in the KSA reality (me for sure).

  58. Kazam
    Posted Tuesday, September 29, 2009 at 21:13 | Permalink | Reply

    OMG, really the head is enorrrrrrrrrrrmouuuuuussssssssss…..humongouuuuuus…Is Is he sick?…maybe he is suffering from Hydrocephalus!!!!Are all face of Saudi men like this…scary…

  59. Chiara
    Posted Sunday, October 4, 2009 at 3:18 | Permalink | Reply

    For one humorous take on hijab wearing:

    http://jimgibbon.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/hijab-cartoon.jpg

  60. Posted Wednesday, October 21, 2009 at 12:45 | Permalink | Reply

    Разумно написано, но мне кажется, что автор что-то не договаривает :)

  61. Posted Saturday, December 5, 2009 at 0:02 | Permalink | Reply

    أفضل واحدة الأولى وهى فعلا رائعة

  62. Posted Saturday, December 5, 2009 at 23:08 | Permalink | Reply

    Going to the land of the hot sexy Ghotra!!!!!! Yes!

  63. Posted Thursday, May 27, 2010 at 17:54 | Permalink | Reply

    butterfly is the best!

  64. Posted Thursday, March 17, 2011 at 3:58 | Permalink | Reply

    I hate the Cobra. It was all the rage when I was growing up and everyone was supposed to do it. Never could master it, so I simply gave up on wearing the ghutra for the longest time. These days I usually go with “The Teacher” for working hour dress and “The Butterfly” for fancy occasions :)

  65. Posted Friday, April 15, 2011 at 7:49 | Permalink | Reply

    This post has been somewhat of a revelation to me

  66. Arab_lady
    Posted Wednesday, May 11, 2011 at 7:50 | Permalink | Reply

    I like modesty the best
    nice post

  67. frombangkok
    Posted Friday, May 13, 2011 at 3:11 | Permalink | Reply

    Very educational, thanks for all photos.

    I linked your site to my blog in Japan to introduce Gulf region fashion.

  68. Hasaan al qatami
    Posted Tuesday, September 27, 2011 at 14:33 | Permalink | Reply

    Ok I wear a shamgh everyday. I love to make it pointy, but I don’t know the “Saudi” way. I just iron it with starch. is this how you do it?

  69. Anthony
    Posted Wednesday, October 26, 2011 at 0:28 | Permalink | Reply

    I’ve been facinated with the ghotra ever since I could remember, and now I wear it more often than I care to say! I was wondering if you still had that email with the two dozen or so styles of wearing the ghotra, because I might be going to the UAE in the next 6 to 12 months, and I want to be prepared. If so, would you be able to forward it to my email address???

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